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How Xanthelasma Became My Wake-Up Call to Tackle High Cholesterol
How Xanthelasma (a skin mark around the eyes) became my wake-up call to tackle high cholesterol by addressing my alcohol intake and diet.
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The Importance of Momentum: What Two Weeks Off Sick Taught Me
A few weeks ago, my partner and I were knocked flat by a virus, which we almost certainly caught from the kids. It put me in bed for a couple of days and then took my energy for two weeks. While I was ill, my routine fell apart one small piece at a time. The school run on foot was replaced by the car. My healthy lunches and dinners became whatever was quick and easy. I took sick days off work, and my weekly gym and run sessions went on hold. The Monday gym grind. Momentum mak
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It's never too late: My Dad's new Relationship With Alcohol After 65 Years
It is never too late to change your relationship with alcohol, and doing so does not have to mean giving it up completely. My dad has been a champion of beer all his life. Some of my earliest memories of him have a pint in his hand — smiling, laughing, full of energy. When I was finally old enough to join him at the bar, it felt like a rite of passage and drinking a beer with my old man was a proud moment. We shared over thirty years of family times with our mutual friend, al
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Turning 50 Without an Alcoholic Drink in Hand
Making hard lifestyle decisions in your forties — such as changing your relationship with alcohol — can be rewarded with better fitness, clarity and energy when you enter your fifties. I turn fifty next month. I'll be entering my sixth decade alcohol-free. Three years ago, I stopped drinking after consuming it for thirty years. Not because I had an issue or dependency, but because I was tired of how it was making me feel and finally seeing the signs of an unhealthy lifestyle
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What Three Years Without Alcohol Has Taught Me
Many people who change their relationship with alcohol describe a gradual shift from actively managing the absence of drinking to no longer thinking about it at all — a transition that can take years to fully settle. This is my story. Three years without alcohol has taught me something I did not expect. Not that life is harder without it, or easier, or more virtuous. Just that it is calmer. More balanced. The noise I had not quite noticed — the planning around drinks, the rec
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What Nobody Tells You About Your First Alcohol-Free Summer
The biggest challenge of an alcohol-free summer for social drinkers is not the cravings — it is the occasions where alcohol has always been present, from the BBQ to the holiday, and learning that those occasions are navigable without it.
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Stopped Drinking Alcohol But Not Losing Weight? Here's the Honest Truth
Stopping alcohol is not a direct cause of weight loss — but it can act as a catalyst for the dietary awareness, training discipline and lifestyle changes that make weight loss and body recomposition possible. Let me say this plainly at the start: stopping the flow of alcohol did not make me lose weight. Not directly, and not quickly. I lost 3.6 stone (23 kg/50 lbs) over a period of years, and removing alcohol was the beginning of that journey. If you are expecting that cuttin
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Finally Questioning Alcohol in your forties
For many people in their forties, the relationship with alcohol does not change dramatically overnight — it changes gradually, as the recovery takes longer, the weight becomes harder to shift, and the energy stops bouncing back the way it used to. I did not have a dramatic moment of realisation at forty-five about my drinking because I was your average guy who liked a few controlled drinks each week. Yet, I had a passing thought, a vague awareness that I had been drinking mos
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On the Wagon? How to Handle the "Go On, Just Have One Beer" Conversation
Before I took my first abstinence challenge, I had built up the moment in my head when someone would ask if I wanted a beer — the raised eyebrow at the bar, the friend pushing a pint towards me, the slightly awkward standoff while everyone waited to see if I would cave. I had a whole defence prepared. What I found, almost every time, was that the conversation was nothing like I had imagined. Out with friends, off the booze Telling People That I Wasn't Drinking The simplest ex
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