My Midlife Upgrade: Why I Swapped Breakfast for Better Balance with Intermittent Fasting (16:8)
- C.W. Mills

- Nov 17, 2025
- 4 min read
Note: Before starting any new diet or fasting regimen –especially if you have health conditions like diabetes – consult a healthcare professional.

For years, my mornings started on autopilot: a bowl of granola, a slice of toast slathered with butter and jam. I wasn’t eating because I was hungry, but simply because it was 7:30 a.m. This routine made me wonder: What does real hunger feel like? Could I learn to eat only when my body truly needed fuel? That curiosity led me to try intermittent fasting, specifically the 16:8 method. My goal wasn’t weight loss – it was to answer two simple questions:
What does genuine hunger feel like, and can I respond to it instead of habit?
Would skipping breakfast be as difficult as people say, and would it actually help me feel better – more focused, with improved digestion and energy?
The 16:8 approach is straightforward: fast for 16 hours, then eat during an 8-hour window (for me, 12 p.m. to 8 p.m.). This meant letting go of my habitual breakfast and re-examining my relationship with food. I wanted simplicity, better energy, and a sense of self-mastery –not a complicated diet.
The First Week: Coffee and Clarity
The first few days were tough. Skipping my usual breakfast felt strange, and the hunger pangs were uncomfortable. Black coffee helped, and once I got moving with the school run, my urge to eat faded. Still, hunger distracted me at first, making it hard to focus. I also overate at midday on the first two days, which left me feeling bloated and out of sync. Despite these challenges, I decided to stick with it for a week. By day four, I noticed something new: my stomach felt truly empty at the end of the 16-hour fast. It was a little uncomfortable, but also oddly healthy – I felt lighter, almost detoxed, as if my digestion had finally finished its work and could rest. Preparing lunch became a point of pride; I was physically better and mentally in control of cravings. Breaking my fast was a relief, and to my surprise, food tasted better and was more satisfying. This reward made it easier to maintain the 16:8 schedule. Skipping breakfast was hard at first, but I soon got used to the new routine and sensations.
The Long-Term Wins: More Than Just Weight Loss
After four weeks, the benefits went far beyond the scale (though my belt notch did move in the right direction):
Renewed Energy: Eating within an 8-hour window kept me full during the most active part of my day. The dreaded 3 p.m. slump disappeared, and I had steady energy for both work and the evening chaos of family life.
Better Sleep: Finishing dinner several hours before bed meant my body spent less time digesting and more time repairing. My sleep became deeper and more restorative.
Greater Balance: With a set eating window, I became more mindful about meals. No more late-night snacking; I went to bed lighter and more comfortable. Each meal felt more pleasurable because I was truly hungry and ready to enjoy it.
If you’re a busy professional feeling drained and skeptical of complicated diets, I recommend trying the 16:8 method. It’s not about deprivation – it’s about applying an ancient principle to modern life. By removing unnecessary friction, you make space for greater productivity and well-being. For me, it’s a habit I plan to keep.
FAQ: 16:8 Intermittent Fasting
Q1: Isn’t breakfast the most important meal of the day? Am I hurting my metabolism by skipping it?
A: The idea that breakfast is essential comes more from marketing than biology. Skipping breakfast for a few hours won’t harm your metabolism. In fact, it gives your digestive system a break and allows your body to switch from burning glucose to burning stored fat (ketones) for energy – a process called metabolic switching. This is where much of the mental clarity and stable energy comes from.
Q2: What can I have during the 16-hour fasting window?
A: Stick to zero-calorie drinks to keep insulin low. My go-tos are black coffee, plain water, and tea – no sugar, milk, or flavourings. These help manage hunger and keep energy up until the eating window opens.
Q3: How do I handle intense hunger in the first week?
A: The first three days are the hardest, as your body reacts to habit, not true starvation. Hydration and activity are key. Drink a large glass of water when hunger hits, and stay busy with focused tasks. Hunger is cyclical – if you push through for 20 minutes, it often fades.
Q4: I work out early in the morning. Will fasting ruin my energy or gains?
A: It depends on workout intensity. Light to moderate cardio is usually fine while fasted; many people feel lighter and more energised. For heavy lifting, try to schedule your eating window so pre- and post-workout meals fit inside it. I now do my toughest workouts around 11:30 a.m., breaking my fast with a protein-rich lunch.
Q5: Do I have to do this forever, or can I take days off?
A: The beauty of 16:8 is its flexibility. I aim for 5-6 fasting days a week. If a family brunch or client dinner falls outside my window, I adjust. Consistency is key – one day off won’t derail your progress. The goal is improvement, not perfection.


